I just tweeted this, but the limitations of 140 characters made it perhaps too tidy?
"At some point you're going to have to carry your own bags. Pack light."
This was part of a big discussion and thinking about marijuana, Al Anon, and nicotine gum. We've each got our baggage. Your framework might allow one or the other, or none at all, but at the end of the day, whatever works for you and doesn't shit on somebody else is what's most important.